My Impossible List

Here at Betterfocused, our mission statement is to promote a true understanding of positivity and fulfilment. One thing that comes as a result of being positive and fulfilled is that you start to quickly achieve the things that you set out to achieve.

One thing that starts to happen is that the impossible starts to feel very, very possible.

This is where the Impossible List comes in. This, similar to a bucket list, is a list of things that I personally plan to achieve. But they aren’t just small goals – instead they are rather ‘impossible’.

The creator of the concept of the Impossible List is the phenomenal Joel Runyon, who states that ’the impossible list is a challenge. This list of impossible things contains all the things I ever thought I couldn’t do because it was “impossible.” The sort of things that I assumed the cool guys on TV only ever got to do. The things I never thought that I would be able to do.’

Don’t consider this list as bragging, in fact, it’s actually the opposite – it’s a chance for me to be humbly honest and open with the Betterfocused community to show that I too am on the journey and am writing from my own research, experiments and experiences…

…it also keeps me from just binging House of Cards episodes 😂

Although very personal, having a list like this public and out there gives accountability and weight to the list. It gives the list more focus. So after looking at my list, consider making your own and Betterfocused!

Need a little inspiration and advice on how to make your own list or set of goals, check this out!


  • Live in another country
  • Become a father, desirably one as good as my own
  • Promote positivity and fulfilment
  • ‘Move the needle’ toward positive progress
  • Make family proud

Fitness/ Health

  • Bench 100KG
  • Deadlift 100KG
  • Squat 100KG
  • Run a 5K
  • Run a half marathon
  • Weigh: 79kg (lean)
  • Shoulder/Waist: 52”/32”
  • Arms: 14”
  • Thighs: 23”


  • Write a column for newspaper
  • Write 10 articles on Betterfocused
  • Launch Youtube Channel and gain 250 Youtube Subscribers
  • Work as a product designer for a tech start-up
  • Be featured in or write for ThoughtCatalog
  • Be featured in or write for Thrive Global
  • Be featured in or write for Lifehacker
  • Be featured in or write for Huffington Post
  • Collaborate or meet with Nerdwriter1
  • Meet with Casey Neistat
  • Give a talk to 1000+ people
  • Give a TEDx Talk
  • Launch a digital product
  • Launch an app
  • Build my own life coaching facility


  • Wake up at 5am for 100 days in a row
  • Write 1,000 words for 100 days in a row
  • Go to the gym more than 4 times in a week for 3 months
  • Drink 4 litres of water for 100 days in a row
  • Read a chapter of a book everyday for 100 days in a row


  • Start a book club
  • Help create short film
  • Host a TV show
  • Sell a series of photographs/artwork
  • Shoot a full-feature documentary


  • Compete against Chess master (and not get totally destroyed)
  • Complete a rubix cube
  • Card shuffle with 3 advanced techniques
  • Learn to play the drums for Jazz
  • Type at 100 words per minute
  • Dive (well) off a 10M diving platform
  • Pick up the guitar again and learn to play ‘Arrival of the Birds’
  • Pick up the piano again and learn to play ‘Merry Go Round of Life’


  • Visit all 7 continents in the world
  • Swim in all 5 oceans
  • Travel to Japan with friends (Connor/Sam)
  • Travel to Japan with girlfriend
  • Travel to Venice with girlfriend
  • See Railay, Thailand
  • See rice fields of Longsheng, China
  • See Machu Picchu
  • Live with monks for 3+ days